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Dumped
Topic Started: Aug 18 2010, 08:44 PM (412 Views)
Foxby
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Okay, so "dumped" kind of implies a bad break-up, but "I've been broken up with" sounds like the grammatical equivalent of dipping your balls in lava.

Anyway, sooooo yeah. I'm not sure what I should feel here. I have that feeling that we haven't really broken up yet (not because of anything she did; more because she wasn't a bitch and we managed to laugh quite a bit, which means I feel better, but I need to feel worse to feel like it's really over).

Honestly, I think I still have a small chance. I actually think I have a big chance, but I'm telling myself it's small so that I'll give up.

I guess the problem is it didn't really go anywhere. Which would be fine. Actually, it is fine.

I've been desperately trying to see her more often because when we -are- together, it kinda... clicks. But she was gone for a lot of last month, and when she got back she was a combination of 'busy' and 'I need to break up with this guy.'

I've wanted to tell her for months now that I love her, but early in our relationship she mentioned she had problems with the 'L' word. So I've been avoiding it because... well, I didn't think she wanted to hear it. Maybe she still didn't, and wanted something else? I don't know.

We're still awesome friends, and I need to stress that. But... yeah.

Ugh, I don't know. I've always had problems having any sort of motivation at all, but when I was with her... I felt like I had to do things. I'm so behind in what I need to do, and with her I felt like maybe I was catching up.
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I'm not sure what to say 0-0

I'm sorry Foxby >< It's good to hear that you two are still friends, though.
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Question. What did you do, and what did she to to initiate this? you werent entirely clear.

other than that the only advice I can give (from experience) is: try to get back together, if it works, awesome. if it doesnt. Think of it as no big deal. because essentially it isnt. Dont mope, not cry, dont whine about it. just kinda shrug it off. because there are plenty women out there to be with (I hate the "Fish in the sea" line, but thats essentially what it is.

When Nyo and I broke up I had a few issues. I got jealous, I got angry, and I got semi depressed. So I started Looking back on it, and I looked like a jackass. so i just erased the issue out of my mind. it worked pretty well.
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I didn't do anything, she didn't do anything. Essentially, she wasn't feeling it for the past month or so. So her friend finally convinced her to stop dragging me along and end it (which she knew she was going to soon anyway), and we talked, and that was it.
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Bah, Sorry to hear that dude. At least you guys are still good friends though. Hope things work out for you further.
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Okay, so I told her I was gonna be okay and I thought I was gonna be okay but the longer I do this the less okay I am. x.x I've vomited twice now, I didn't sleep at all last night, and any time I eat anything... well, like I said, I vomited twice now.

It's getting more and more likely that I'm going to do something stupid (not the self-harm kind of stupid), and I really hope I'll be able to stop myself before I do.
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Now when you start up doing stuff like that, i kinda get annoyed. Vomiting? Really guy? Get the fuck over it.
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Fayt
Aug 19 2010, 10:49 AM
Now when you start up doing stuff like that, i kinda get annoyed. Vomiting? Really guy? Get the fuck over it.

Be nice Fayt. It's scienctifically proven that Men are more emontional after a relationship. My friend for example starved himself for about a week after him and his girlfriend broke up and he wouldn't do anything but mope in his room. When my GF broke up with me, I basically felt like shit also, didn't eat and pretty much felt depressed about it for awhile...

I'm sorry that your like this dude, I hope you can get through this. It's hard, I know it is, but we care about you and were willing to listen to your problems. Just don't do anything drastic.
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Update: Still megabummed, but I'm trying not to be a lazy slob so I applied for two jobs today (didn't have a car or a driver, so...). Hoping that helps fix it.

Also, as far as eating: I managed to eat a value-size thing of french fries without much of a problem, so victory for my stomach, I guess.
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Managed a half a can of chicken noodle.

I managed to settle on a "battle plan" of sorts. I've been whining at Olivia far more than she deserves (honestly, she is the best dumper, you guys should all try being dumped by her, it is awesome and you should feel totally cool afterwards).

In order to avoid being a massive clingy douche about this, I decided on two things.

1. I'm going to get all my shit sorted out.
2. I'm going to try again.

Things change, and what I'm trying to do is change myself into someone to be proud of. I just hope that it helps, but if not, I'll still have her as a friend... and I'll have a job, a car, etc.
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Go for it.
We already talked, but again. I apologize for being a little too harsh.
At least your doing something about it.

To Joey, I completely agree that men are more emotional (well thats kinda variable) after a breakup. It kinda depends on the circumstances of said breakup. Everyone knows about what happened to me. again, I didnt get overly emotional about it.

anyway, keep me posted. Ill always be around to knock some sense into you, or maybe cheer you up. whatever.
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Foxby
Aug 19 2010, 08:08 PM
Managed a half a can of chicken noodle.

I managed to settle on a "battle plan" of sorts. I've been whining at Olivia far more than she deserves (honestly, she is the best dumper, you guys should all try being dumped by her, it is awesome and you should feel totally cool afterwards).

In order to avoid being a massive clingy douche about this, I decided on two things.

1. I'm going to get all my shit sorted out.
2. I'm going to try again.

Things change, and what I'm trying to do is change myself into someone to be proud of. I just hope that it helps, but if not, I'll still have her as a friend... and I'll have a job, a car, etc.

There we go! Thats the spirit! Just try to sort your life out for the better man, we'll be rooting for you.
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Aug 19 2010, 10:17 PM
Foxby
Aug 19 2010, 08:08 PM
Managed a half a can of chicken noodle.

I managed to settle on a "battle plan" of sorts.  I've been whining at Olivia far more than she deserves (honestly, she is the best dumper, you guys should all try being dumped by her, it is awesome and you should feel totally cool afterwards).

In order to avoid being a massive clingy douche about this, I decided on two things.

1.  I'm going to get all my shit sorted out.
2.  I'm going to try again.

Things change, and what I'm trying to do is change myself into someone to be proud of.  I just hope that it helps, but if not, I'll still have her as a friend... and I'll have a job, a car, etc.

There we go! Thats the spirit! Just try to sort your life out for the better man, we'll be rooting for you.

Joey, stop acting sensitive like a woman, I can smell the fish from all the way over here.
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Corey
Sep 19 2010, 09:09 PM
Tabris
Aug 19 2010, 10:17 PM
Foxby
Aug 19 2010, 08:08 PM
Managed a half a can of chicken noodle.

I managed to settle on a "battle plan" of sorts.  I've been whining at Olivia far more than she deserves (honestly, she is the best dumper, you guys should all try being dumped by her, it is awesome and you should feel totally cool afterwards).

In order to avoid being a massive clingy douche about this, I decided on two things.

1.  I'm going to get all my shit sorted out.
2.  I'm going to try again.

Things change, and what I'm trying to do is change myself into someone to be proud of.  I just hope that it helps, but if not, I'll still have her as a friend... and I'll have a job, a car, etc.

There we go! Thats the spirit! Just try to sort your life out for the better man, we'll be rooting for you.

Joey, stop acting sensitive like a woman, I can smell the fish from all the way over here.

Thats your mother Corey, Gawd.
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