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PROBLEM
Topic Started: Jan 11 2005, 09:39 PM (218 Views)
Hickeryboy2003
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OK, as you should all know by now I'm gay, for those who didn't know this is my official 'come out' so to speak.

Anyway a friend of mine called Phil, otherwise known as 'El Penguino' is snooping around and trying to find out if I am 'cause he saw one of the topics on the old board, I think it was one where Wighty was yelling at me and he brought it up. So if anyone with email address: philrules81@hotmail.com tries to add you on MSN or asks you anything about me, you don't know me nor do you know anything about that particular part of my life.

I have to deal with this and I'd appreciate some discretion, thank-you.
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Wigumoto
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Wouldn't it be easier to just tell him your gay?
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Evil Eyes
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I done that when I was telling my friend, Wiggs, long story.
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Hickeryboy2003
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Wigumoto,Jan 11 2005
09:48 PM
Wouldn't it be easier to just tell him your gay?

No.
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Lita Maivia
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But if that's what you are, why does it matter how long the story is? Is there a reason you're keeping this secret from him? Are you ashamed of it? Sounds to me like you can tell people over a computer that you don't have to see, but when it comes to having to face up to it you're too ashamed of it to admit it.
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Hickeryboy2003
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I'm not ashamed to admit it Lits, but if someone in my school or close by, who I didn't want to find out, did find out, my life would not be nice. So yeah you're right I can tell people over the internet I don't have to see, but in person it's alot more complicated.

I'd appreciate it if no-one else judged me in this topic, I'm dealing with this the way I feel is right and am simply asking for some discretion if you're asked anything.
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Lita Maivia
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If it isn't a problem and all you want is discretion then why is this labeled "PROBLEM"? Shouldn't it be labeled something like "I need some discretion"? *shrugs*
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Hickeryboy2003
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Because it's a problem that he's snooping around.
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Wigumoto
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If he was on the old FIW then how do you know he's not snooping here?
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Hickeryboy2003
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I was talking about the one that got hacked.
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Wigumoto
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I know, and I was talking about what if he found his way here.
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Hickeryboy2003
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*shrugs* I thought it was worth the risk just incase.
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Tiff
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Honestly I dont blame him for wanting to keep this secret. He is still in school and a lot of people his age and the age of people he is with are not so secure with their sexuality.

Does gay bashing mean anything to you guys?

What was the boys name...*thinks but cant remember it now* He was a senior in school or freshly out of school when he was killed for being gay. Happenened in a small town, two staight boys took him out tied him to a fence and beat the shit out of him. He died a few days after he was found.

One of my friends that is a senior in school now is gay, I kept a very close eye on him when I was there because I was scared of that.

Is it likely that Hickery is going to be killed by some gay hating bastards? No. Is is possible? Yes.

Being gay and in school doesnt normaly mix, it is something to be kept quiet.

*shrugs* I have a lot of gay friends....big issue in my life and whatnot. If I sound angry dont worry, I'm not. Just wanting to make a piont.
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Lita Maivia
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Yes, that's true. But HB says "his friend" is trying to find out. This guy isn't just a random school-goer.
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Tiff
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Doesnt normaly matter.

Sometimes "friends" run out on you for no reason, or no good reason. I lost a few when someone found out just how Witchy I am.
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Evil Eyes
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I know what you mean Tiff. I get threatened to get killed almost everyday. I hate school. I actually considered suicide a few times it's that bad. But anyway this isn't about me it's about Hickerys problem. Back on topic.
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Tiff
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Matthew Sheppard.

Thank you Lita, that was going to drive me nuts.
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I actually considered suicide a few times it's that bad.


No offense but that sounds like a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Just remember, school doesn't last forever. It may feel that way but it doesn't. And more often then not, kids in school are the most judgmental crowd you'll ever be forced to associate with. While the world is full of jerks, there's quite a lot of understanding people in it as well.
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Evil Eyes
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I agree. After I calm down, I think that's a stupid solution. I know there's alot of jerks ¬_¬ but there's understanding people like all my friends, which most of are girls and there's alot of them. Another reason why people decided to throw comments at me but I can avoid that one.
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People are gonna hate you/threaten to kill you no matter who you are. If you're a jock or a christian, neo-nazi trenchcoat-wearing fucks are gonna shoot you up. If you're a goth, the rednecks go after you, if you're the perfect princess the jealous ones will hate you, if you're normal, goths, freaks, and punks will laugh at you, and if you're gay, the homophobes and closet gays afraid of their own sexuality will hate you.

Unless it's highly important to you that they not think of you in an ill light, like my mother, who would have probably disowned me or tried to "cure" me if she knew I was bi, then go ahead and be yourself.

But that's just my opinion.
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Steve
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Your gay?


























Just kidding....... I know your are and I will keep my mouth shut. Though the chances of a person finding out your are gay when you flaunt it in a public forum is a very great risk you take when you post things of such personal nature.
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Samoan
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Though the chances of a person finding out your are gay when you flaunt it in a public forum is a very great risk you take when you post things of such personal nature.

That's the whole thing I just can't seem to wrap my mind around. There's a big fuss about this person finding out, but then it's plastered all over OOC. Hmmmm...
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