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Guys...I need a little advice.; WARNING: Girly problems ahoy.
Topic Started: Jul 20 2006, 02:09 AM (98 Views)
YamiYumes
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Well, my boyfriend seems to be debating whether or not he wants to stay in this relationship, and it's really tearing him apart. I don't want the relationship to end, personally, but if it makes him happy, I'll let him go.

I just...don't know what to do with him. I mean, everytime we get into a conversation, I start thinking about it, and I'll be honest. It upsets me a great deal. To the point of crying, which is something I don't do all that often.

I don't know what to say to him to make the decision, either way, easier on him. I'm so confused, scared, and upset and I can't help but feel that I'm pressuring him. I don't know if I should just leave him alone for a while, or just offer him a shoulder to cry on.

I've been so depressed lately, and I can't bear picking up the phone to call him in fear of crying again. (I've been doing this a lot lately ><) and no matter what I try to do to make myself feel better, his indecision is slowly killing me.

I just want to know one way or the other...but he can only say "I don't know."

Some advice would be lovely.
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Saz
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You poor thing, that must be a complete annoyance too, that you feel so confused.

Personally, I'd ask him first if he actually is considering it and say why you thing he is (why, out of curiosity is this btw?) because you ca't come to a final decision unless you know the definates of the situation - it may feel awkward but its better than making assumptions.

If he isn't, return to being your regular happy self but if he is maybe you could ask why and see if there's anyway of resolving the issue before terminating the relationship, especially if he means so much to you. If you can't a break may be for the best but try to sort it out first if you're going to consider anything cos you could ruin something special all on an assumption.

That's my advice anyway, but you don't have to like it or do it lol. Hope it helps though
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Night Terror
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Wow...This thread needs to be recycled, I think....
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Cinos Gohegdeh
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I guess most people around here have happy well adjusted relationships..... :lol:
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