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| MyOwnLove | May 27 2006, 11:37 AM Post #1 |
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I found out a few weeks ago I was pregnant and when I told Adam he asked me not to tell anyone and when the time was right we would tell our parents. Well about 2 weeks ago Adam starts being all weird, leaving the house when I am sleeping, talkin to girls and veiwing cams in middle of night and then he tells me we are done and he wants me to leave. I call my mom and ask if I can come over because I was just kicked out. Then I called work and asked for a transfer and they said transfers didnt happen that way and I needed to turn in my keys. Adams mom comes home and asks why I am packing me and Andrew clothes. I told her Adam desided he wanted me out. She said Adam and her had talked last night and thinks it would be best if we took a break and it isnt permenent. Adam looks at me and says "are you ready to go to your moms?" While in the car he said it isnt permenent and would call me in a few hours he just needs time alone. Well I got no call so I went to call him the day after and no answer. So I IMed Monica to see if they were together and she goes off on me saying I am a whore and I dont deserve Adam and yes they are together cause they are hooking up. Adam says he didnt know she was talking to me and dont know how I knew he was with her. Long story short I am going to have 2 kids in awhile, lost my job and lost my kids dad. I dont know when i am due yet i have to go in for an ultrasound next week but they think i am 13 weeks along now. Always knew I could do things on my own but I dont think that a girl should be more important then your children. |
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*Suni* *Definatly to deep for a simple minded person to understand*
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| Kissy | May 27 2006, 12:46 PM Post #2 |
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oh Suni I feel so bad for you girl you deserve better then this , I hope you can find the strength to move on. I KNOW its not easy and it really sucks. Some guys never grow up or take their responsibilities. My oldest one's dad is like Adam.very sad.....hang in there |
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| Woodman | May 29 2006, 01:42 AM Post #3 |
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no words......try to keep your chin up. |
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| flemse | May 29 2006, 03:05 PM Post #4 |
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As Woodman says. If there is ANYTHING we can do......... Big hug to you....
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| WorkingMom | May 29 2006, 05:25 PM Post #5 |
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So sorry to hear this Suni I think it will be better for you and your kids to not be in the relationship. I agree with Lyne that you deserve better. It won't be easy but I know you can do this. Where are you staying at now? |
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| MyOwnLove | May 30 2006, 05:13 AM Post #6 |
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Sorry it has takin me so long to reply. I am currently at my moms and they saying they just want me to move back in. I dont know whats going on still and he cant seem to be a man so .... Ill try to be online more but i am trying to figure things out... Bye guys |
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| StEC | May 30 2006, 11:25 AM Post #7 |
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Hi Suni I wish you nothing but the best girl....hang in there hun!
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| dfxshadow | May 30 2006, 12:53 PM Post #8 |
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dont really know what to say, just hang in there, youll be alright. |
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| Athulryes | May 31 2006, 09:24 PM Post #9 |
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Eh...that sucks..@_@....It just gives me a greater idea of life of what I should and should not do.... Anyways...I hopes you are able to find something joyful or a great fortune out of this |
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| MyOwnLove | Jun 1 2006, 11:41 PM Post #10 |
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Thanks everyone, I spent 7 hours in hospital today. I have a viral stomach infection and since i am puking everywhere the doctors had done every test they could on me. I was poked 4 times before they found a vein and then my hand started swelling cause it was so irritated. They asked if i wanted to stay for observation but i knew i had to come home to take care of my son Andy. But good news is i am having better luck with what was bothering me before and I think i am on a good track now. Good night guys!
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| StEC | Jun 2 2006, 01:40 PM Post #11 |
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Ohhh Suni you will be in my thoughts....you got to stay strong for you & Andy and things have to eventually get better. I wish you a speedy recovery and the best of luck!
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| Rampage | Jun 2 2006, 01:44 PM Post #12 |
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wish i had a big hammer and adams balls do u think if we cut them off he would settle down? sorry to hear ur problems sunni chin up |
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| MyOwnLove | Jun 3 2006, 10:46 AM Post #13 |
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LOL yea i think if he didnt have any he would be able to settle down. I just think he needs time to grow up. I took Andrew over there yesterday but I think I was annoying him. I called so much to check on Andrew, just kinda worried. Adam got a job yesterday so at least he is beginning to be smarter. Just mean his mom is watching andrew and right now i dont trust her. She told me some pretty mean things and i am trying to forget them. |
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you deserve better then this , I hope you can find the strength to move on. I KNOW its not easy and it really sucks. Some guys never grow up or take their responsibilities. My oldest one's dad is like Adam.



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