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| Tweet Topic Started: Sep 12 2006, 03:17 PM (395 Views) | |
| lambiorix | Sep 12 2006, 03:17 PM Post #1 |
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found my wife in a coma due to a mix of medecins and alcohol Yesterday my wife did not feel very well. She was having her periods and that always starts with an incredible headache. So she stayed at home for some rest. This morning she was lot better but my son didn't feel very good. He had fever and did not get out of his bed. She would stay at home taking care for him. At midday I came home for supper, but there was no diner at all. My wife was sleeping. I did not wake her and made myself a meal. Back to work. At 3 PM she called me she was feeling better again and did not had seen me at home. Said I would be home around 4:30 PM. I came back home the hour I said to her. I came through the back door and saw something on the floor. First I thought it was a bit ketchup but when I look again I suddenly realised it was blood. She lay sleeping on a couch in the living room. I looked around and found a bottle in the laundry. I went back to her. I took her and shake to wake her but in vain. The right site of her face was covered with blood. I ran to my neighbour who is nurse and we called for an ambulance. For the moment she is in ER but they will bring her this night to another hospital where her doctor will take care of here. |
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| StEC | Sep 12 2006, 03:19 PM Post #2 |
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Oh wow I'm so sorry to hear about this Francky.....she and your family will certainly be in my thoughts tonight. I wish her all the best. |
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| Glenmetalhead | Sep 12 2006, 03:27 PM Post #3 |
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Hope everything is OK keep us informed Francky |
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| Thunderstream | Sep 12 2006, 04:48 PM Post #4 |
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Hope everything turns out for you |
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| Athulryes | Sep 12 2006, 06:59 PM Post #5 |
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Mhmm...reminds me of when my uncle had a tooth ache he took some pain killers but they made his kidneys shut down and he's only starting to get better now and it was like last year lol... |
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| zzzzzzzuhlast | Sep 13 2006, 07:26 AM Post #6 |
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I Hope she will be ok. My thoughts will be with you. |
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| cajunrebel | Sep 13 2006, 07:51 AM Post #7 |
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My prayers are with your wife Francky. How is she doing today? Stay strong, my friend |
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| phatty_phred | Sep 13 2006, 08:29 AM Post #8 |
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Sorry to here this Francky you and your familly are in my prayers |
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| lambiorix | Sep 13 2006, 02:50 PM Post #9 |
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what about my wife : well, she will be in hospital for a long time i think so. She doesnt remember a thing from what happened yesterday and thinks everything is all right except she feels exhausted for the moment. she has to admid she got an alcoholproblem but she does not accept it and thats the real problem. she does not see that she is destroying herself and her family if she keep on going this way like she does now. If she does not change her way of life she will not live very long. maybe 10 years to go but not much longer. I wish I could help her change her point of view but it is all in her hands for the moment : if she does not change, nothing will change. |
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| suikerbuik | Sep 13 2006, 03:50 PM Post #10 |
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I'm sorry to hear all this Francky. I wish you and tour family all the best and i hope your wife makes the right choice. It's hard when you are addicted to admit it. (in Dutch now) Francky, het zal een moeilijke tijd zijn nu. Verslaving is een van de ergste dingen en het moeilijkste dingen om toe te geven. Ik hoop voor jullie dat je vrouw het durft toe te geven zodat ze goed geholpen kan worden. Heel veel sterkte voor jou en je gezin. Sorry had to say it in dutch was a little bit easier for me. Hendrik |
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| StEC | Sep 13 2006, 05:28 PM Post #11 |
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Thats fine Hendrik I'm glad you did so that you could get the right message across to Franky. Franky alcoholism is very hard I seen many in my family go through it and a few just can't shake it's hold that it gets on you but others have. She will need to be strong to overcome this but will also need you and your children to be strong as well as any family. I certainly wish you all the strength and willpower needed to beat this. And I'm so happy to hear she did not end up in a deep coma. All the best my friend.
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| Kissy | Sep 13 2006, 10:00 PM Post #12 |
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I'm sorry to hear all this Lamb and I sure hope everything turns around for the better. My prayers are with you and your family xox |
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| kamy.is.god | Sep 14 2006, 03:04 AM Post #13 |
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my work and prayers are all for your wife's recovery... |
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| lambiorix | Sep 14 2006, 01:02 PM Post #14 |
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thanks for the support friends, I really appreciate it. For the moment she feels very weak and has weeped a lot this morning. I hope she will admid that she is in trouble and will accept the help from the doctors, her friends and family. I always thought everything was allright for her at work, but this morning i discovered it is a mess too. Her boss knows about the alcohol problem and tries to help her too. |
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| WorkingMom | Sep 14 2006, 01:30 PM Post #15 |
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Francky, I am sorry to hear about your wife. I am glad she is okay and hope that she will realize that she needs to admit she has a problem. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife
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| lambiorix | Sep 15 2006, 10:13 AM Post #16 |
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we talked today in her room at the hospital, and I do not believe she will see the facts. Hope the doctors will help her to see the thing in her life as clear as possible. |
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| MyOwnLove | Sep 17 2006, 12:05 AM Post #17 |
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I hope everything goes alright. Hope ur doing alright as well.... |
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*Suni* *Definatly to deep for a simple minded person to understand*
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| Woodman | Sep 17 2006, 12:45 AM Post #18 |
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wow, what crap to be going through.......I completely understand. My own wife is getting ready for some tough love (although she doesn't know it yet) and you may need to consider this also. Keep your chin up the best you can! |
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| StEC | Sep 17 2006, 07:56 AM Post #19 |
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Well sounds like we will have to wish you the best to then Mike, hope your tough love no matter the situation gets through to her! |
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| Woodman | Sep 18 2006, 02:13 AM Post #20 |
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Thanks, just want to be clear I wasn't trying to make this about me, just showing that I understand Francky's feeling. |
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| lambiorix | Sep 22 2006, 02:40 AM Post #21 |
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She is still in hospital but feels a lot better. Maybe she can come home for a weekend. francky. |
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| WorkingMom | Sep 22 2006, 08:37 AM Post #22 |
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Glad to hear she is feeling better. Did the doctors get through to her? |
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| StEC | Sep 22 2006, 11:13 AM Post #23 |
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Glad to hear this Francky...please keep us posted! |
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| lambiorix | Sep 24 2006, 02:33 AM Post #24 |
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lets say she was very exhausted when she came into the hospital. For the moment she looks better, she feels better but she got to take care. She is still tired after doing some things. This weekend she is at home in the afternoon but she feels she need to be in hospital to recover. What about her mental problems I really dont know how she sees/feels it. She always knows WHY it went wrong but doesnt say anything about the reason she tried to cover the problems with alcohol and pills. For the moment I try to bring all the medical files about her in one place so the doctors will have a complete view about her situation. |
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| zzzzzzzuhlast | Sep 24 2006, 07:40 AM Post #25 |
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I am glad she See's the need to get help, by staying in the hospital. I wish her and you all the best for her recovery. |
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