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| MyOwnLove | Oct 8 2006, 11:50 PM Post #1 |
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I have always been told that bad things happen in threes.. well I had received 2 when I posted my last blog and now i have the 3rd... I no longer have a best friend or a friend at all actually ... this is what i received for messages.... Brett Moore Date: Oct 6 2006 8:57 PM Subject: RE: No Subject Body: ok yea well im sorry im not allowed to communicate with you at all anymore i aint losing my sexy jamie at all i love her to much to do that and she told me to not talk to you and all she said its best but yea if you dont like it or whatever she said you can talk to her about it so i just leave it at that cause i dont wanna exactly be rude and all but im just telling you how it is now so I replied: ok well i would but i am not going too... u were all i had and i dont even know where my son is right now because adam has him and dont live with beth anymore.. i wanted someone to talk to. I really hope u r happy and u stay that way i just wanted a friend.. u were my best friend and so thanks this kinda fucks me even more...... What ever u were my friend for what 4 years? that sucks................ Brett Moore Date: Oct 6 2006 9:10 PM Subject: RE: RE: RE: No Subject Body: well its over so no contact with me at all anymore please thank you Someone want to tell me what the hell is oging on in my life? I am so lost and so confused.. He is like 23 and he is letting his girl control his life!?!?! I know if I tried to control someone I would be hit and same if somone tried to control mine... I dont even know what i am suppossed to think or feel right now.................. OH YEA AND: I just have alot going on. I was told today that my ex, (first and only love), recently got engaged after only 2 months dating his new girl. I dated him for almost 3 years and we have 2 kids together. I sent my oldest son Andrew over a few days ago only to be told by someone that my ex don't live there anymore. I have no idea where my son is and I have been upset and stressed out all day. I could care less about him dating his lil whore and being engaged, I just think he should have at least told me he had moved and where my son would be. Is that so wrong to want to know where your child is? Am I weird for freaking out? CAN I REALLY BE THAT BAD OF A PERSON TO HAVE EVERYTHING HAPPEN AT ONCE? I WAS TRYING TO CHANGE MY LIFE FOR THE BETTER WHEN I LEFT MY EX BUT EVERYTHING BAD IS HAPPENEING SINCE AND I AM FREAKING OUT!!!! |
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*Suni* *Definatly to deep for a simple minded person to understand*
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| Yourbuddy | Oct 9 2006, 02:49 AM Post #2 |
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wow, I am so sorry about all of this I hope you can talk to her and reason with her. I personally think you need to point out to your friend that he is obviously on the wrong path and he is probably blinded by "Love". Whatever you do don't insult his relationship, just point out to him that if his girl can't trust him with a friend then there is a problem in his relationship and as a friend your only pointing it out to help him. I'm sorry people are doing this, just know that if people are going to do this to you they don't deserve you as a friend. For everything else I really have no experience so I can't advise you on anything there sorry. I hope all comes out good and you feel better soon! |
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| StEC | Oct 9 2006, 09:03 AM Post #3 |
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Wow sorry to hear things have gotten worse for you Suni. Buddy is right about trying to reason with your friends girlfriend but if she can not reason with you and he continues to take her side well then it's pretty much a lost cause sadly you should move on instead of causing trouble in their relationship. As for your sons whereabouts call everyone that you can think of that may know anything and even the cops if you have to. You believe things happen in 3's....well so do I and guess what this is your 3rd blunder, now you can look forward to some good things so keep your chin up, stay strong & focused! You a great person Suni and deserve good things and they will come to you. HUGS <3 |
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| stereo | Oct 9 2006, 12:54 PM Post #4 |
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Yep yep yep, Suni, our admins are right! I just wanna add that forget that "so called friend", u'll find the better one, the real friend who will be with u for yourself. And remember, everything is in your hands so don't loose your heart.
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| WorkingMom | Oct 9 2006, 08:15 PM Post #5 |
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Buddy and Stec said it all. I am sorry Suni that you are going through this. Hope this helps some
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| MyOwnLove | Oct 9 2006, 11:15 PM Post #6 |
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thanks guys. I tried to talk to my ex when he dropped off Andy and i asked where he was living and he didnt want to say. I have desided that since I cant trust him any longer I am filing a motion for custody of Andrew that was next time when i call the police they can help me when he is missing. Anyways still kinda hurt about Brett just dumping me off but I am sure ill get over it. Thanks again for the kind words, some good news is i have passed 2 of the tests on my GED and ill be doing the 3rd soon :) |
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| StEC | Oct 9 2006, 11:29 PM Post #7 |
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Glad to hear some good news Suni!
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| Yourbuddy | Oct 10 2006, 12:29 AM Post #8 |
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Good things come in three too! |
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| Millie | Oct 10 2006, 02:19 AM Post #9 |
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Your friends girlfriend sounds like a nasty piece of work..and he sound completely spineless....I wouldn't even bother speaking to the girlfriend cos he's not worth your time or effort. As for yur ex not letting you know where he lives, surely you'd be well within yur rights to refuse him visits from your son if you don't know where he'll be?? |
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| suikerbuik | Oct 10 2006, 12:11 PM Post #10 |
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I agree with Millie. If your friend doesn't stand up to hear don't bother, sounds hard but he does that to you too. And your ex sounds like a piece of s****, i know he is your first and only but if he treeds you like that he is nothing more than that. I hope more good things will come your way now. "The way to up is always harder than the way down." Hendrik |
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| MyOwnLove | Oct 11 2006, 05:21 PM Post #11 |
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Thanks for the opinions and advice guys :) I really appriciate it.. :) |
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*Suni* *Definatly to deep for a simple minded person to understand*
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| kamy.is.god | Oct 11 2006, 10:25 PM Post #12 |
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:D i'll be around if you need help in kicking some ass, okay?
:D why do people like to hide kids? grr... |
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| WorkingMom | Oct 16 2006, 05:35 PM Post #13 |
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Glad you are filing for custody so you can get help the next time. Hugs for you Suni
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| zzzzzzzuhlast | Oct 16 2006, 11:28 PM Post #14 |
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Any time, you know we always hope the best for you, and I hope good things come in way more than three's
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