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| Amon | Oct 24 2011, 09:02 PM Post #1 |
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I honestly can't believe I am discussing this, but I think if anyone can help, it'll be one of y'all. I think I may have a crush on one of my best friends and I have no idea what to do. I've been thinking about it for a year. On one hand, he makes me laugh and we always end up having fun. We have a great group of friends, but can always seem to be able to hang out just the two of us. On the other hand, I think that I may be mistaking the friendship for a crush and I don't think it's anything more than friendship to him. Can anyone of you help me? Have any of you been in a similar position? Have any of you know anyone that has been in this situation? |
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| ReineDeVampire | Oct 25 2011, 09:20 PM Post #2 |
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Hmm...that is a tough situation... You have to ask yourself some questions... First, does he seem to like you as more than a friend? (I don't know about you, but 90% of the time I can tell when someone likes me as more...) Second, is he the kind of guy that just flirts with everyone so you could be miss-interpreting the signals? My best friend is a flirt. She is really friendly with guys and so they tend to get the wrong idea from her a lot. Just because she'll hug them, hang out with them every night (or just multiple nights a week) and otherwise be a little touchy with them...it's not because she's crushing on them necessarily, she just likes hanging out with guys and that's how she is *shrug* HOWEVER. If your friend is a really good one, you should be able to talk to him about your feelings and keep him as a friend even if he doesn't return them. My friend I mentioned before, has a little bit of a different situation, just because when the guys tell her how they feel, she assures them that she doesn't feel the same but they don't get the hint...as long as you're not like that you and this guy should be able to continue being friends... PLUS, if you don't talk to him, or make a move, you'll never know if he feels the same as you...sometimes assuring yourself of your own feelings can be tough...sometimes you just need to test them with the person (kissing, dating, etc.) to see if you really like them or not...so I say you should go for it and see what happens. Worse case scenario, he tells you he only likes you as a friend. If he freaks out and doesn't want to be your friend anymore or something, he's immature and wasn't that good of a friend to begin with and you can do better anyway. So yeah...hopefully that helps at least a tiny bit... I loves you wifey! |
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| Amon | Oct 25 2011, 09:41 PM Post #3 |
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Thanks Mags! I'm still not sure if I like him or not, and I have been debating it on and off for a year. My other friend has talked to me about it and I think I am just gonna tell him this: "I just wanted to say that I am having confusing feelings about our relationship, and I think I may have stringer feelings for you than just friendship." Honestly, if another friend didn't try to push me in a relationship with him, I may not have these confusing thoughts. I think I would know where I stood on my feelings, no matter what they are. I hope that everything works out and (if I were being honest) it would just stay as a friendship. I'm not sure I can handle a relationship right now. But I shouldn't start pushing every guy I am even slightly interested away, lest I end up alone. Okay, done ranting. I LOVE YOU TOO, WIFEY!! |
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