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| Hatsune Candy | Feb 9 2012, 09:42 AM Post #91 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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I would like to do that, but I believe I've mentioned before that she moved away.... Besides, after what happened last time, I've kinda gotten a little paranoid. |
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| Hatsune Candy | Feb 12 2012, 02:29 AM Post #92 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Alright you know what? This is bothering me, so I'm posting it to get some of the weight off my chest. About a year or so back I was chatting with her on facebook a while back. In the middle of our chat she spontanously says bye. Literally all she said was bye and nothing else. A few minutes went by and I got a message for her, or rather, her cousin. He began to ask me some weird questions. One them asking if I loved her, and in the spur of the moment, I said no. After some persistance he got mad and told to me to stay away from her. I later find that I had been blocked from her account and had to get my friend to send a message to get her to unblock me. Due to the situation she gladly does so, but a few days later I find that she had defriended me. Skepitcal, I ask why, but instead of a response she blocks me. Later, I hear from my friend that she call me a f*cking douchebag and didn't want to hear from me again. And so it was like this for a few months and I was left constantly wondering what made her so mad. Eventually I hear from my friend that she had finally calmed down and wasn't mad at me. Sure enough a recieve a friend request from her on facebook and we starting chatting again. But something seemed off, she wasn't saying as much. She didn't seem interested in our conversation. And now it's come to this point where she's ignoring me, but not my friends. I'm saying this because I've been thinking lately. I think that wasn't her cousin I was chatting with, I think it was her. And I feel the reason she was so mad at me, and the reason she's ignoring me now, is because I said that I didn't love her. Maybe, just maybe, she still has a crush on me and me saying that I don't is really devastating for her. Because of this I'm tempted to send a message revealing my crush to her, but I don't know if I should. I feel like I'd need more information to do that, so you know what? I'm going on a little research.... |
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| Naku Nyame | Feb 12 2012, 01:05 PM Post #93 |
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I think you should tell her that when you talked with her cousin that he caught you offguard with a question and you awnsered untruthfully because you wern't ready to be asked that question out of the blue. |
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| KrazynessNetwork | Feb 12 2012, 02:38 PM Post #94 |
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That Dude, You Know, THAT Dude.
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That might work. Though I'm not sure, since I tend to flirt more than I actually try to get a girlfriend. ![]() |
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| Hatsune Candy | Feb 13 2012, 12:25 AM Post #95 |
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No......... No. NO. GOD DAMN IT! Pardon the rage, but IT'S HAPPENING AGAIN! She blocked me, again! I can't believe, I actually can't believe it. What the hell did I do to make her so angry? SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME. She must seriously hate me if she's going to do this to me. Does she have ANY idea the hell she's putting me through because of this?! I have never cried so much in my life. And to think I was SO close before. Had I not been so blind, I would have had her. But now I've essentially lost her forever. I have given up all hope, I really have I was planning to confess my love valentines day and now I CAN'T! And like hell if I'm going to find someone else. I have never felt this way for anyone except for her. I feel like I should do something, but I don't want to annoy her even more. Maybe it's best I forget about her, I'm /probabaly/ barking up the wrong tree anyways. She'll calm down eventually, knowing her, she has to; she always does, ALWAYS. Still I can't just stit here and do nothing..... UGH, I don't know what to do!
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| Kumakaori | Feb 13 2012, 01:44 PM Post #96 |
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灰色狼
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*hugs*. .. hugs from another who knows the pain of being ignored. I've meant to say this earlier amongst your ranting, but them words! They elude me! Pah! You have done nothing. It is -her choice- to ignore you and -her choice- to treat you poorly. She might not hate you, she might just be afraid. "Of What?" Of you, of relationship, of losing your friendship, of anything. She likely doesn't know what she's putting you through ^_^;. How could she? She isn't -you-. Yes, give up, expect nothing. She may be the only person you've felt this way about so far in your life, but humans are resilient if nothing else. In time, you'll pick yourself up, gather your feelings, and find yourself in love again. This wasn't the first 2/14 of your life and it wont be the last ;). (Aside: Love yourself and who you are. Loving others gets easier somehow after that. (more aside: it is going to hurt. ) Please tell me you weren't planning on confessing to her online ;P. ... Indirection is a horrible way to express earnest feelings. In person is better than Over the Phone which is still better than Text/Online/E-mail. Annoy her? You're the one who sounds annoyed. >P. Hmmn, something to do. What I would do... write her a letter, write down your feelings, your hopes, your frustrations, your apologies, anything and everything that you want to tell her. Especially some of these things you feel like you "CAN'T" >)... Best of luck. You've got until the end of the day tomorrow to get that letter written and sent >) >P >D!!! (fffuuuuu in person == impossible? .. Bah e-mail note it'll have to be <_<;;. P.S. Call her and tell her to check her e-mail before you send it, and for her to call you after she reads it >P >D. Voice == Tone == So much easier to understand.) ((More ranty responses to earlier stuff: So she hops on her Cousin's FB to ask you some serious questions, and it turns out it was her?? And she calls YOU the @$^&ing Douche!? Get a clue woman, have the courage to ask your man yourself! ./pif! Get It By Your Hands. ... *hugs* ^_^. hehehehehe. 運を祈る~)) |
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| Hatsune Candy | Feb 13 2012, 02:01 PM Post #97 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Thanks Kuma I feel so much better now. But first, three things: 1. Yes I was planning to confess to her only and I realize what a bad idea that might be. 2. I have NO other way of contacting her, no phone, no email, and no cellphone. I have a friend a that knows her email, but won't give it to me because, and I quote, "She might get mad at me." (some friend, huh?) 3. I COULD try and contact her through my other friends, but I'd rather not make her more angry and possibly mad at them too. Other than that, you're freakin Awesome -hugs- Edited by Hatsune Candy, Feb 13 2012, 02:01 PM.
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| S. E. Lehcar | Feb 13 2012, 07:11 PM Post #98 |
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Let's become someone else. Perhaps with more depth of character.
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Have you considered snail mail? I know you probably don't have her address, and you'd miss your "Valentine's Day chance," but there may be an opertunity to do something different. Even in this day and age, letters, actual physical pen on paper can be appreciated. And if you don't have the address available to you, there are always ways of finding it. Good luck, Candy, and if this chick doesn't work out her own uncertain feelings before you've moved on, I wish you luck in finding other better people. |
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| THEkingroxas | Feb 13 2012, 07:50 PM Post #99 |
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I'm Dante~
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Too lazy to try and translate what Kuma said, he'll probably explain if we ask. Anyways, I can't say that I feel for you. I don't. I'd rather not be in the position you're in at all in my life. All heartlessness included (pardon the pun). But, if she is THIS intent on completely erasing you from her life, to the point where you cannot reach her electronically, then you'd probably be better off without her. She could have moved on. So, why haven't you? I'm purposely trying to make this sting, you've received enough soft advice, time for some tough advice. Ignore her. Pretend she never existed. If she REALLY does still like you then she probably will get bothered by the lack of contact. -sigh- I'm sorry, I'm in a semi-bad mood, but I really wanna help you out. There're other people, move on. Make some new friends. Try some new things. Get your mind off it so she doesn't drive you to the ground. Love hurts. Love is stupid. But, it works for some better than others. Best wishes. This'll probably be close to how much I know about love: 0. |
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| Naku Nyame | Feb 14 2012, 01:26 AM Post #100 |
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Damn it Candy you REALLY make me want to come over there and help explain in person because over the internet it's a bitch to explain. I actually have kinda the same experience from before I moved to Ohio. |
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