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Topic Started: Jun 1 2011, 10:21 PM (25,641 Views)
Hatsune Candy
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B-but... GAH
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I am so confuzzled right now
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Naku Nyame
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The changed Naku
Please tell us what's going on and we might be able to explain.
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Kumakaori
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Feb 27 2012, 09:24 PM
I swear the universe is messing with me. I don't want to fall in love again just yet, but I find myself doing so anyways. Though can you really blame me? She quiet, like me. She likes vocaloids, possibly more than I do. And her voice is nearly as adorable as Miku's. Not to mention we're old time friends.

The worst part being I somehow end up in her presence at ever possible moment. Someone must be having a good laugh over all this....
Dude, he totally did ;P.

So you find yourself, once again, attracted to one who holds similar interests as you ;)...

If no one else has yet, allow me ^_^;; ahahaha, ehehehehe hehehehehe ^_^;;. hehe, too cute ;P.

I challenge you here, Candy. Don't fall for her. You've said it yourself, you don't want to. The only thing worse than trying to force yourself to love someone is trying to fall in love with them on the rebound... (Ok, there may be plenty of merit in forcing yourself to love someone. It might as well be key to forgiveness, but we're dealing with romance here >_> <_<;. ... I dunno about the rest of you but "forced romance" doesn't sound right >>;;;.)

ANYWHO, where was I. Ah, the rebound. If you really want to pursue her, feel free to seek her friendship, but give your heart a month or two to collect itself and give an objective analysis before you go seeking romance again ;P.

Pfft, an objective outlook on love... who am I kidding >P. Best of luck kiddo, "you miss 100% of the chances you don't take." ;)...
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JBRam
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Don't play with fire, kids.
Heh, I can disagree with Kuma! Yay :P

Although I definitely agree on one point. Work on building up your friendship first. Don't jump in with both feet into a relationship yet, but become friends with her. By the way, make sure you're not just feeling a connection cause you're friends or share interests if/when you do decide to go after her. There's a big difference between friendship compatibility and relationship compatibility.
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PincherD
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I do also disagree with Kuma, somewhat...

I'll say right now, that now isn't the best time that you should fall in love. Like JB said, become friends with her, much like I have with the one that I'm after. And when the time is right, you should tell her. I'd probably recommend doing so, after a couple of months of being a friend of hers.

I mean, I'm very nervous about telling the one I want to love that I do so, but I've been a friend for a little while, like maybe a year. I'm not saying wait a year, I'm saying don't rush into a relationship without really knowing the person you want to love.

On my own news, I'm going to tell her today, if I see her. I really don't any more knots within myself, my stomach is already in a box knot and full of butterflies. Please wish me luck.
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DiskytheFrisbee
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I AM looking rather beautiful today.
I wish you luck....
That aside.... I've never fallen in love with ANYONE before.
.... Meh. I'm a cold-hearted bitch.
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THEkingroxas
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^ he has a heart, listen to him. Joking aside, Candy mentioned this girl was a childhood friend, yes? So, I think it wouldn't be "forced" per se. Then again, give yourself time to recover, time heals all wounds, yes?
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Hatsune Candy
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Good luck Pinch
As for me, I'm going to need a lot more than just luck.

You'd only understand if you knew me IRL, but I never talk to ANYONE, not even family, not even old friends from the past. I just can't do it. There are only about 3 people I can talk to comfortably and that list is slowly in the proccess of shortening. Occassionally I do talk to others when I don't have much of a choice, but even then the most I can ever muster is a three or four word sentence. I'll be honest, the true reason I didn't talk in the Dramatic reading voice calls was because I was nervious. That's why I brought Eyebal in, he's the only person who's presence will get me to talk around others (that and one other, but he's rather annoying).

That said, how in the world do I stand a chance at the hands of love? There was only one person that I could of hooked up with, and you all know how that turned out. Sorry if I've become an annoyance, I have a lot of problems that I haven't ever been able to share.

Also, Roxas, I learned the hard way that's not always true, sometimes time only makes them worse.
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Overlord SoS
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Perhaps the problem is that you need to work on your social skills before thinking about a relationship. Try and take small steps to break out of that comfort zone and open up. Then apply those skills to a relationship. Three word sentences are not going to form a relationship.

Again, no expert here. I've never been in a relationship myself. I'd like to think the that over last few years I have become more confident myself, making my own strides to becoming more social.
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JBRam
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Don't play with fire, kids.
Women in general like to see a certain amount of confidence from a guy, whether it be self-confidence or general courage. You should try talking with her, and you should try to get yourself to talk with others. I'm not saying force yourself to be the center of attention (almost always ends badly), but you're not going to go far in a relationship if you can't talk to a girl. Or her father. Or her best friend. Or your podiatrist, although that's somewhat unrelated.
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