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Topic Started: Jun 1 2011, 10:21 PM (25,656 Views)
Nue Houjuu
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Ghoul02
Jun 1 2011, 10:40 PM
My two cents. If you don't mind me asking, what brought the question about?
Basically, zondac didnt trust me, sent a spy to try to get in my pants, and we got into a huge fight. now im seriously questioning our relationship, although i still love him.
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Ah. Well, that's my opinion. In a traditional sense, I think it's possible, but very difficult for reciprocal love without trust. Of course, I am among the single least qualified person to ever talk about this kind of stuff... My only relationship lasted 2 months and ended so badly that I still haven't talked to that person since, and it's been about 8 months...
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Nue Houjuu
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ahh, this is what i wanna hear, other people's run in's with distrust or a wall in a relationship. Also, im sorry to hear that.
Edited by Nue Houjuu, Jun 1 2011, 10:50 PM.
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Ghoul02
Jun 1 2011, 10:48 PM
Ah. Well, that's my opinion. In a traditional sense, I think it's possible, but very difficult for reciprocal love without trust. Of course, I am among the single least qualified person to ever talk about this kind of stuff... My only relationship lasted 2 months and ended so badly that I still haven't talked to that person since, and it's been about 8 months...
Same goes for me. But it's only been 5 months and not 8.
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Don't feel sorry for me. I initiated the breakup. Poor timing, and I guess "blindsiding" caused the huge rift. Sucks, because the person was a really good friend especially prior to the relationship, but there was nothing there for me two months in... I figured it was better to end it.
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Boredalo
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She just used me as a tool,a way to show off,a gateway to having any situation complete without me getting anything in return.

I broke up with her on the 2nd month too,and I'm thankful I did that. She's just a total bitch now.
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Shane the Corrupted
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What is this love that you speak of? Is it edible?

Anyway.
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Ghoul02
Jun 1 2011, 10:40 PM
If you don't mind me asking, what brought the question about?
Basically, zondac didnt trust me, sent a spy to try to get in my pants, and we got into a huge fight. now im seriously questioning our relationship, although i still love him.
So apparently, he tested you. Before I really say anything, would he ever have a reason to?
Granted, I have no right to speak, single as I've been for my life, but I can voice an opinion if so desired.
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NakaTeleeli
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I will say this much. I haven't have any issues with trust in the past, but I have had experience in emotionally similar situations. Love is an interesting emotion. It's very standalone and can exist with nothing else to support it, but the lack of others can put enough of a damper on things to make it not matter.

In short, love can most certainly exist without trust. No question. However, the question here isn't really if love is still there. The question is if a relationship can continue without trust. These are two rather different things. Without trust love can continue on until the ends of time. However, love is not always enough to keep a relationship going. I've known at least one girl before that I loved more than anything, but at the end of the day we argued constantly and were always angry at each other. Did we love each other? More than anything, but we determined that despite that a relationship simply couldn't work.

So in the end I can say this much. The lack of trust more than likely will not change the fact that there is great love there. However, it's up to you to decide if the lack of trust is enough to end the relationship, or if it's something to work through.
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My expierance with love, has allways ended with another person tainting the loved one into areas I could not follow. ( first instance I can't spead of, second instance my girlfriend cheated on me for a pothead.)
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Ghoul
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Naka, if anything deserves a slow clap, that does. That was pretty much perfect in my opinion.
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