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| Shane the Corrupted | May 25 2012, 06:36 PM Post #321 |
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Maybe you should...give up on her...and move on for real. It is clear that this is going nowhere, and when she is taking her 'hatred' for you this far, then she isn't worth the friendship you so desperately want to salvage. |
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| Hatsune Candy | May 25 2012, 07:00 PM Post #322 |
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Maybe I should, I almost had; if it weren't for today's mention of her, I would have completely forgotten about her. The problem is she was a really nice person... in a mean sorta way, but I digress. We spent so much time together, I estimate about more than half of my childhood days spent with, and none of them were filled with feelings any deeper than friendship. That's all I want really, the good 'ol days. Life is moving way to fast for my liking. Sadly, time waits for no man. |
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| Gaia | May 25 2012, 07:51 PM Post #323 |
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If she's so angry at you, and there's nothing you can do to vouch for forgiveness... Then yeah, she needs her space. If she's still a good friend, then she'll realize how much she means to you and perhaps she'll get over it after thinking it over. Obviously if she's mad at you she's been thinking this over quite a few times; she probably can't decide, so she defaults to anger. I'd say that you give her a bit of time. If she's contacting your best friend, then maybe in the future she'll soften up and ask him how she can contact you. Even if she's far away, distance shouldn't break a bond. It can, but it shouldn't necessarily be able to. If she doesn't, well... That outcome is rather obvious... Edited by Gaia, May 25 2012, 07:52 PM.
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| Hatsune Candy | May 25 2012, 07:56 PM Post #324 |
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Keep in mind that this has been going on for a few years now. If she was gonna stop being mad at me, then it woulda happened already. Plus, I still don't know what I did to make her so angry, so it's not like I could actually do a thing. |
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| Shane the Corrupted | May 25 2012, 08:10 PM Post #325 |
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Gaia, don't try to give the kid false hopes. If this really has been going on for so long, it's better to just let it go. Nothing good's come out of it yet. "Those who hold no expectations, won't be harmed by the truth." Save yourself the pain and trouble and get over it already. It might be difficult, but can you honestly tell me you believe it'll get any better? I don't mean to sound pessimistic, but there is a line between being hopeful, and being desperate. Don't steer towards the latter. It's better to move on and turn your attention towards those who really care for you, the friends you have now and can still enjoy yourself with. |
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| Hatsune Candy | May 25 2012, 08:45 PM Post #326 |
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I'm just tried of waiting for something to happen when, clearly, nothing will. I wanna do something about it, I've been way to passive for my liking; I need to actually add influence to the situation. Only, I don't know how. Therefore, I must give up, sadly. |
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| S. E. Lehcar | May 25 2012, 09:12 PM Post #327 |
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Let's become someone else. Perhaps with more depth of character.
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Just tell your friends how much it bother you that they talk about her. If she's gonna keep snubbing you, just be the bigger person and stop caring about her "friendship." Even if it was important to you in the past, its clear this point, its clear that she doesn't care cherish those times as much as you do; so forget about it, and about her. |
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| Light | Jun 2 2012, 05:11 PM Post #328 |
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I've skimmed through this thread since there is so much of the lovebug going around and, well, I've been hit by it too. Let me start back up a bit. There's a girl who's in my math class, and well, she's hot. Yet the reason I like her isn't because of her looks but her personality. She intelligent, energetic, humorous, and although she gets side-tracked easily, it's what makes her unique. At first I thought nothing since she beautiful and popular I figured she doesn't have a boyfriend. But lately she's been acting unusual around me and suddenly its feels... odd being around her. I always have a hard time around girls (no suprise there) but I feel different around her, yet I don't know how. The only thing worse is that we're going far away from each other and I feel that I'll never see her again. People may say I'm intelligent but I'm entirely clueless and need some help on this. |
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| Gaia | Jun 2 2012, 07:02 PM Post #329 |
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I've got a bit of that too. There's this girl who spends her free periods where I like to spend my free periods, which is at the back of the school. I'm not quite sure how we started talking, but we kind of hit it off, though I'm a bit apprehensive to tell her how I'm feeling. To be honest, she probably feels the same way, and I'm just far to oblivious to see it. The only thing I can say for you is to go for it... But don't say anything like that while you're in front of her friends or anything, because then it'd be awkward for both her and you. Make sure if you're setting up a date, you have something in mind; and options. I'll also say part of the reason this lovebug is going around is probably because of spring/summer being here. Edited by Gaia, Jun 2 2012, 07:08 PM.
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| Naku Nyame | Jun 13 2012, 01:05 AM Post #330 |
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So my relationship with my girlfriend is wierd; she lets have other girlfriends so at the moment I actualy have two girlfriends so that will be very confusing later on... |
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