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| NakaTeleeli | Oct 20 2012, 08:07 AM Post #531 |
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Naka the Honeywhite
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People are complicated. I figured this was relevant. |
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| Gaia | Oct 20 2012, 08:13 AM Post #532 |
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Physics and love don't mix... That's why I formed the battery metaphor. For someone who has a difficult time understanding, at at least mildly works
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| JBRam | Oct 20 2012, 09:15 AM Post #533 |
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Don't play with fire, kids.
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Heh, I just watched this the other day. Hank's kinda awesome. I still think that we should just draw a great big ol' circle around everyone and call them "people" |
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| DiskytheFrisbee | Oct 20 2012, 02:58 PM Post #534 |
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I AM looking rather beautiful today.
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Dude what the- DiskytheFrisbee is smacked by Speedy. Aaaaaah. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Please don't hit me again. Dude, I just don't believe in Asexuality, you're human, you went through puberty... I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable Coldflame, It was simply a harmless little joke... I really need to use JK whenever I make a joke. |
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| JBRam | Oct 20 2012, 03:02 PM Post #535 |
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Don't play with fire, kids.
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I don't believe in physics. Therefore it doesn't exist. |
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| AeroA113 | Oct 20 2012, 03:36 PM Post #536 |
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Welp. I watched that video. That actually made a lot of sense. Go Hank~ |
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| Exiled | Oct 20 2012, 03:52 PM Post #537 |
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Hank is an absolute legend and speaks very true words. |
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| Michiyo744 | Nov 7 2012, 02:24 AM Post #538 |
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On the S.S. Cool Dude
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Okay so I think this one guy who is kind of a friend to me has a crush on me, he even straight up told me that he would actually date me. He's a nice guy and all, but how do I say that I'm not interested without sounding rude/hurting/'friend-zoning' the guy. I feel bad cause he got out of a bad relationship but at the same time I really don't want that kind of relationship right now, heck I still barely understand those kinds of relationships, that just isn't something I'm mentally prepared for. Plus he's really touchy-feely with hugs and is really clingy and I could not handle that at all x__x Spoiler: click to toggle
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| Gaia | Nov 7 2012, 02:39 AM Post #539 |
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No matter what you do in this situation, he's going to be hurt. There's a reason they're called crushes. If you tell him you aren't interested, it's going to be a downer for him. That's not his fault, and it's not your fault. If it's not meant to be, though, he needs to know. If you're really close as friends, maybe let him know that you see him a bit like a family member... And I would say, that if you're really adamant that you could only see him as a friend, that needs to be expressed as well. You can be as gentle as possible, you can soften the blow, just make sure that what you're feeling is conveyed. You'll both be better people in the end because you didn't hide from him, or lie to him. I know he's just gotten out of a bad relationship, but if he's not in your future, he's not in your future, simple as that. Sorry I couldn't be a better help other than, "Tell him your feelings!" But it's honestly the only way into a relationship, out of a relationship, or to mend a relationship. If this guy is one of your friends, being truthful with him should help mend the relationship, but humans aren't so cut-and-dry, so he might react entirely different. I hope for the best. |
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| JBRam | Nov 7 2012, 08:00 AM Post #540 |
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Don't play with fire, kids.
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Like Gaia said, the best advice for anything relationship is "Use your words." If you don't want to date him, then you DO want to friend-zone him. That's kinda what friend-zoning is. However, even though you say you'd prefer your first relationship to be with girls, that's just a preference instead of a must, from what I read. If you aren't completely appalled by the idea of dating this guy, then I would say go for it. You're NOT going to understand relationships very well until you get into one yourself. It's like expecting to know how to drive before stepping into a car, or knowing calculus before taking a math class. It's something you have to learn. I get your issues with touchy feely people, and that could definitely bring up some issues, but you could let him know that you need space. Again, use your words. Nearly every problem in a relationship can be solved or prevented with just talking things out. |
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