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Topic Started: Jun 1 2011, 10:21 PM (25,595 Views)
Aru Feiku
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I am not an angel.
Apparently all of my friends have crushes on me, that includes both genders.

...I'm sorry, what? I'm not that lovable, how is this possible, I don't even...
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Minmin-Sama
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BUNNY ON DA ROOOOF
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Jan 13 2013, 11:55 PM
[...]1 year is the tough bit, isn't it?[...]
I'd have to disagree. The hardest part comes after the first year, since for most people the first year is spent learning about your love. Just past the three-year point, my fiance and I have been having a lot of troubles simply because it feels like we know each other. Our communication dropped sharply, and we got complacent with just doing our own thing. Now it's kinda hard to grow "back together" as he so put it. I've gotten o used to being on my own and having my friends in my Skype chat there for me when he wasn't, it didn't take long for me to start shying away from him when he got really desperate. :\

All I can really say at this point is that the real trouble may start now, after year one, but I sincerely hope it doesn't. un u

And to Gaia: It's good to hear everything went well~ ^-^
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JBRam
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Don't play with fire, kids.
What Minmin said. The first year is still the honeymoon phase. Wait til you get that 7-Year Itch.

Wifey and I have been together for about that long. We know all the bad and most of the good about each other, and I wouldn't trade her for anyone else in the world. Don't think about it as "Oh, I got to get through XX years" because things will always be looked upon negatively. If you get into fights (and you will), just remember all the things you love about your significant other. Be quick to forgive, and never ever keep score. They don't have to give 50%. You both need to give 100%.
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Lord of Ruin
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Lookin Fine~
The JB is awesome~ Seriously I love you dude, And yours is advice I will keep with me :3
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Aru Feiku
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I am not an angel.
I'm starting to think I'm better off without love.
I don't need it and it only makes my life more difficult.

Unfortunately, love is not one of those things you can get rid of easily, if at all.
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Lord of Ruin
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I know you don't like to share personal stuff, but Why would you want to cut off love? Love is one of those gifts of life that can completely change everything :3

Not to say Love hasn't cause problems, it can sometimes, but real love, true and good, can be a source of amazing happiness.
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Aru Feiku
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I am not an angel.
I've had enough love for one lifetime, really. I just think I'm better off isolated. I'm certain it's not all that bad, and that there's someone out there for me. But trying to find that someone is.... risky, to say the least. I'm not a risk taker, so count me out. And then there's my sexual preference, which I'm still not sure of. It's what you'd call.... unstable, in a way.

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Lord of Ruin
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Mmm, I understand Aru. That's your choice, And I hope you'll be happy X3 Don't worry about the preference thing btw, its natural to be unsure for a while, and hey maybe you're both ways :3

On my own little story~
When I was younger I didn't really believe it was worth my time to go out of my way to get rejected. I was 100% sure No one in their right mind would wanna even touch me with a twelve foot stick. My ideas left me with a ton of regret though. I always hated that stupid thought of "What if I had?" so I just decided to take it. Being afraid of rejection is normal for everyone, but If I just kept being afraid I'd never get no where. So I opened up, let my feelings through a bit more to specific people. I got heartbroken, I got rejected, but now I'm with someone I absolutely adore~ I see all her flaws and I accept them. I realize her dreams and do what I can to encourage her to realize them, and she does the same for me. One thing I realized is This thing doesn't work unless both parties are willing to forgive XD

Anyway story over~
I felt like sharing, I guess the moral is to be open to the possibilities? Or maybe don't be afraid of rejection? The worse a person can say is no, so if ya got a person you just really wanna talk to, ask em!

I think I'm done XD
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QuietPuff
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I have returned! After wandering for a few years... long story.

Let's see, Love.

After a few years of traversing perilous hells, (Emotionally, mentally, physically) this is what I think of love.

It varies from person, to person.

Long-term relationships are few and far between. Beautiful, complicated, and enduring.

Short-term relationships are just as beautiful, when they end peacefully.

Long distance relationships are tough, often short, memorable, and wonderful.

Jealousy is the worst poison for a relationship, it hurts both parties tremendously.

People change, and the couple who doesn't think they've changed... don't realize that they change and grow with their partner together. So, it appears as though time remains in place for them.

Trust is a double edged sword. It must be earned periodically.

Forgiveness is a merciless scale, tip it one way you're a pushover, tip it the other and you're unforgiving.

Compromise is a dangerous word, when it conflicts with your personal convictions.

Romance is mistreated, often dismissed, and thoroughly underestimated.

Affection is a drug - appetizing, addicting, dangerous in constant doses.

Acknowledgement, it's more important than we realize.

Breakups, they often leave you hollow, sad, and anxious.

Love can be abusive, cruel, and agonizing when someone you care about willfully hurts you with it.

And last, but not least...

Once you do love, that person will always have a place in your heart, be it a large chunk, or a tiny fragment. They are engraved into you.

It's like dropping a stone into a lake, eventually the surface becomes still again... but that piece is there, and will remain there.

That's all! =^-^=

Oh! And trying to find someone to connect with while you're abstinent is... hell, pure hell. xoxo
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Hatsune Candy
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Jan 28 2013, 12:49 AM
Long distance relationships are tough, often short, memorable, and wonderful.
Aero and I have be going on for, what? Almost four months now?
I would hardly consider that short. (granted it's not long either)

The rest I can completely agree with, though.
Edited by Hatsune Candy, Jan 28 2013, 12:56 AM.
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