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Females of VE, gather!; For nobody seems to know who you are.
Topic Started: Dec 10 2011, 06:07 AM (9,487 Views)
Stabby
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Hello~
No.
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Hatsune Candy
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The soul of a forgotten file
I'm with Stabby on that one.
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AeroA113
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Ditto. You don't need to change your gender, Naku... :(
Edited by AeroA113, Dec 16 2012, 12:47 AM.
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Naku Nyame
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I don't need to I know but I haven't felt comfortable in my own skin.
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Gaia
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If she's legitimate with how she's feeling, then it's probably best to refer to her as such. This is a tough thing to come out with all of a sudden, though.

I will say, for one, it's not a choice for something like this. It's never been a choice. Even if you're the one who's personally feeling it, don't refer to it as a decision.

Due to your past of attention-grabbing I do have a small amount of trouble believing this, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt for now and refer to you using feminine pronouns.
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Overlord SoS
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Yeah, don't just get people to refer to you as a woman as a means of grabbing attention Naku. If we find out that's the reason why, people will naturally be rather angry at you.
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Speedy
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Fairly sure I've given up.
It seems to me like a decision out of nowhere.. and that generally means that it is not really so.

Instead of deciding to get a sex change and getting people to call you with female pronouns, I would instead suggest finding out what you ARE comfortable with.
Naku the Neko
Dec 16 2012, 12:49 AM
I don't need to I know but I haven't felt comfortable in my own skin.

My question is will being a female make you feel comfortable. Considering your decision seems based on a random judgement, I personally doubt it.

You'll need to take the time to find out what you are comfortable with.
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Wool
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Triggers.
I don't even know what the hell is going on here, but this thread suddenly went to a different discussion of genders on VE.
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JBRam
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Don't play with fire, kids.
One thing that I should point out...

Just cause you don't find yourself as the ultimate guy or girl does NOT mean that you should feel like you're not a real guy or girl, and that you should be the other gender instead. It's perfectly normal for a guy to not like hunting or sports or any of that, or for a girl to not like shopping or makeup. It doesn't make you trans.

Heck, even liking the same gender does not make you trans. It makes you either gay or bi. Personally, I have a hard time using female pronouns on someone who is physically a guy, and vice versa. I know that probably makes me close-minded or whatever, but that's just how I am. Until you have a doctor go and physically lop off your guyparts, I don't think I can call you a female, especially knowing your history. You're not a girl stuck in a guy's body from what I've seen. You're just a guy who has had some rather normal and not-life-altering things happen to him, and seem to be slightly over-reacting to them.

Note: I do not know you the best out of everyone on VE, and it's possible I'm wrong. From what I've seen however, I don't think I am.
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Alteiriaa
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*pokes head in thread*
uhh, err. Dunno what you guys ever thought I might be, not posting that much or giving much of an impression and all, but +1 lady thing here.
(For the record though, if someone says he in referance to me, I find it funny, not offencive. :P)
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