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| Hatsune Candy | Sep 16 2012, 11:59 PM Post #1 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Okay, wow, I can sense the hate already. Alright, I'll be honest, leaving VE did not help my situation at all. In fact it made it worse, I guess that's because I've gotten so attached to this forum. I swear I don't know what I'd do without this place. So yeah, I feel really bad for rushing out like that; it was irrational and I won't be surprised if I get a lot of hate for it. But I've learned my lesson at least some what, and that's to never abandon this place ever again if at all possible. A lot of things have occurred to me in the estimated two weeks that I've been gone, so that's one good/bad thing, depending on how you view it. Anyways, I'm just glad to be back, but I'm not expecting such an early return to go over well. Afterall, my original plans were to return in December. Also, big thanks to Aero for all the support that you've given me since I left. I probably would have had several mental breakdowns without you there. Just thought you should know if you didn't already. Edited by Hatsune Candy, Sep 17 2012, 12:01 AM.
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| Kumakaori | Sep 17 2012, 12:30 AM Post #2 |
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灰色狼
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*bop*. You're young. Make mistakes, learn from them, keep on living. Welcome back, keep on learning. |
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| Hatsune Candy | Sep 17 2012, 12:48 AM Post #3 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Well, that was a much better reaction than I could have ever hoped for, thanks Kuma. |
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| SupurNeoDude | Sep 17 2012, 03:53 AM Post #4 |
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Deliciously delicious.
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I have no idea of what you're going through, but I hope you can overcome it if you already didn't. Anyways, I skimmed what you wrote. I won't do or say anything unless I feel it's necessary, so don't expect anything harsh from me, alright? Welcome back, Candy. |
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| Speedy | Sep 17 2012, 04:19 AM Post #5 |
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Fairly sure I've given up.
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That is most likely because Kuma is one of the nicer people around on the forum, if it comes to things like this. People, like say, ME, can only ask questions like say.. "Who betted 15 days?" or "Who came closest to 15 days?", and then proceed to congratulate said person with coming closest. Wait, would that imply that I saw this coming ages ago, after you leaving and coming back a few times before? Yeah, I guess it does. Candy, I can understand you having personal problems and wanting to take a break from the forum. But this is what, the third, fourth time you went 'I'M PERMANENTLY LEAVING WAH WAH'? It's the whole 'permanently gone' thing I'm having trouble with. You're honestly just creating needless drama, and like you said yourself, making it worse by coming back. I'm not saying this is 100% a bad thing- in all honesty I don't mind if you're here, as long as you act mature.. but this whole 'leaving permanently' and then being back before even a month has passed shows none of this maturity I had hoped you would possess. If you want to take a break from the forum because of personal problems, SAY PRECISELY THAT and TAKE A BREAK. Alas, no, you simply go on and post 'WAH WAH I CANT TAKE THIS FORUM IM GONE FOREVER' and then come back 'YEAH OOPS MADE A MISTAKE IM BACK HAHA'. It just doesn't sit well with me, and most likely I'm not the only one. If you truly want to prove you've grown or matured.. Then don't leave anymore. Do not create any needless, simpleminded drama for the sake of wanting attention. Cause that's what it looks like to me. Like another stunt of yours to get more attention. Which is just like changing your font to something annoying to read or coming up with unnecessary verbal tics... Or there's the other path. You could ACTUALLY leave permanently. ACTUALLY leaving the forum behind. That's probably the most mature thing you could do. If you read my post though, you would see I have no such intention to actually having you follow that up. I just want to be done with this unnecessary drama building and attention seeking. There's over ONE THOUSAND people on this forum, even if there's only a handful active. EVERYONE got their own ideas, plans, problems.. Everyone's different. The situation can't always be 'YOU'. And it won't. So if you just behave normally and don't go all attention seeking, then I'm totally fine by you being here. Just acting mature. We all act immature and random at times, mostly in the Skype chat. And that's perfectly fine. But there hasn't been anyone else who has 'permanently' left 3-4 times. You've set a record nobody wanted to exist, congratulations, now stop it and just act mature. Edited by Speedy, Sep 17 2012, 04:24 AM.
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| JBRam | Sep 17 2012, 08:07 AM Post #6 |
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Don't play with fire, kids.
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Candy, we don't hate you. However, a lot of us hate drama. Recently, your comings and goings have done nothing but created needless drama. When you create something that people hate, a lot of the time, people will equate that thing with you, and start to dislike what you do. A lot of what Speedy said is actually really good advice, and well-meaning, especially this:
I have taken breaks from VE many times. By "many," I mean approximately once every month or two. It's very difficult to stay extremely active on a forum when there is negativity directed either at you or your friends. I am sad to say that once in a while, certain parts of this forum become negative. However, I have never once announced that I was leaving. Why? Doing so creates unnecessary drama. "Oh, JB, we don't want you to leave" is not something I crave to hear. It's nice to hear that people care, but one should not crave or require such things. Even my post saying that we had a baby coming... I didn't post that for a LONG time. Why? As much as I like knowing that people care about my life and don't want me to leave, I don't need people fawning over me in order to feel fulfilled. Candy, I want you to stick around and enjoy yourself here. I want you to have a good life. I want you to be happy. But I also want you to start growing up and stop acting like a 8 year old kid. |
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| Hatsune Candy | Sep 17 2012, 08:20 AM Post #7 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Welp. You guys might not hate me, but that paragraph, that paragraph right there, pretty much sums up the entire reason why I hate myself. |
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| Speedy | Sep 17 2012, 08:41 AM Post #8 |
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Fairly sure I've given up.
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This post just makes me loop back to an age old question, that is constantly on my mind when it is in regards to you. Have you yet visited a psychiatrist? Edited by Speedy, Sep 17 2012, 08:41 AM.
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| Hatsune Candy | Sep 17 2012, 08:57 AM Post #9 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Bah, I tried, I really did, but he wasn't any help. |
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| Overlord SoS | Sep 17 2012, 08:58 AM Post #10 |
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Star of the Show
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You know, I just wanted to ignore this post. If there is anything I hate, it's unnecessary drama and I tend to prefer to ignore it rather than pay it any heed. But Speedy and JB have said some damn good points and the last, and I mean LAST thing I want to see is you do the same thing you always do when people give advice. You make excuses Candy. You make excuses to avoid seeking help. I don't want too see you constantly leave and return, act out for attention (Which you're getting right now) and create drama I'd rather not have on the forum. Seriously, Speedy and several others have mentioned the fact that you should seek professional help on multiple occasions and every time you make an excuse to avoid the fact that THEY ARE 100% CORRECT! If you hate yourself, if you nearly had mental breakdowns, GO SEEK SOME GOD DAMNED HELP AND DON'T LET ANYTHING STOP YOU! Regardless, welcome back; hopefully things start to take a turn for the better for you. EDIT: Still a Ninja, THAT WAS AN EXCUSE RIGHT THERE! |
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