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| Hatsune Candy | Sep 17 2012, 09:08 AM Post #11 |
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The soul of a forgotten file
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Excuses are all I have, really. It's not like I could just pour my emotions and thoughts into everyone else so that they'd understand. And to explain one's self in words is something that's not even possible from how I see it, so I've stopped trying. Now it's just kind of an annoyance when people say they understand when they really don't. This points back to one of my previous rants, so go look it up if you actually care. Edited by Hatsune Candy, Sep 17 2012, 09:09 AM.
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| Overlord SoS | Sep 17 2012, 09:13 AM Post #12 |
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Star of the Show
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No, I tried to help. Now you're acting stuck up. You're right, I don't understand and if you're going to act stuck up when I just want to help then I won't bother. Just keep the drama to a minimum and try to actually get some good out of this okay. Welcome back Candy. (Congratulations, you have officially unlocked the Angry SoS class; a rare and difficult to acquire creature.) |
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| JBRam | Sep 17 2012, 09:38 AM Post #13 |
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Don't play with fire, kids.
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A very wise lady once told me, in order for one to experience real love, they must first love themselves. At the time, I thought that was complete BS. But I think it's a lesson you need to learn, Candy. Your assumption that no one can understand how you feel is absolutely incorrect. Most of us have gone through some period of self-loathing at one time or another. It's not a very rare occurrence. Even your particular situation with the girl and a bunch of other things isn't all that rare. A ton of us have gone through crap and have become stronger from it. Why do we suggest a psychiatrist? Because they help. Maybe not the first session (heck, they don't even KNOW you in the first session). It TAKES TIME. Just because it "wasn't any help" at first does not mean that it will continue to be like that. If it does, you found a crappy psychiatrist and should find a different one. Sometimes it's difficult to formulate words to express yourself, but you NEED to do that. With a PSYCHIATRIST. @SoS, don't take it personally... when people are feeling down, they often lash out at others, redirecting their frustrations. I'm pretty sure he didn't want to actually tick you off. |
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| Coldflame | Sep 17 2012, 09:38 AM Post #14 |
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The Master Pedant
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Ok, I can live with a permanent leave sure. I can live with you deciding to come back. What I CAN'T deal with is you doing it THREE times. First time is fine. Second time is pushing it. Third time is drama for the sake of drama. If you want to take a break, say you want to take a break. Around here, it seems permanent leaves are about a week (on average) long. |
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| AeroA113 | Sep 17 2012, 09:49 AM Post #15 |
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... AeroA113 runs up to Candy and gives him a big hug. Welcome back... |
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| Overlord SoS | Sep 17 2012, 10:11 AM Post #16 |
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I'm aware of that, then again I'm not one to lash out at people often unless they lash out at me. While I know he didn't mean to make me angry, it happened. Mostly it was the fact that he brushed off the advice you and Speedy gave him more than anything. Seriously Candy, we just want what's best for you. Hell there was a large period of time where I felt a lot of self-loathing. It was probably about the time I was around your age (*GASP* No way!). You aren't the first teenager to ever hate themselves, what matters is that you don't let it own you and try to better yourself. |
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| Speedy | Sep 17 2012, 10:20 AM Post #17 |
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Fairly sure I've given up.
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"Wah wah, I tried to go to a psychiatrist once, but he wasnt any help at all." Yeah, ofcourse he wasn't. After all, you're not STILL seeing him. Going to a psychiatrist and working out your problems TAKES TIME. ALOT OF TIME. Hell, you could still be seeing him in 5 years. But in 5 years, THINGS WILL HAVE CHANGED. Slowly. But surely. Your REAL problem is that you have NO PATIENCE AT ALL. In your case, when the going gets tough, the Candy is going. It is posts like this why some people give up. You need to understand that, at least for ME, this is the last time I'm giving you any attention at all. If I see more bullshit, I'm putting you on my ignore list. Because that's what it is. Bullshit. Just plain and simply BULLLLLSHIIIIIIT. You don't have 'excuses', you have 'needs for attention'. You don't seek 'solutions', you seek 'reasons to get more attention'. You state 'so I've stopped trying'. Is that what you want us to do? To give up on you, to just drop you like a brick? Because quite honestly- I have reached the point to where I literally stop trying to care about you. Yes, TRYING to care. I've already passed the point of ACTUALLY NO LONGER CARING, but am still TRYING FOR YOUR SAKE. But no, instead of 'you're right Speedy, I'll seek help', I get 'pff no, he wasn't any help but wah wah my life sucks and I have excuses ALL OF THE EXCUSES'. For me, this is absolute BULLSHIT. Literally that. Bullshit. Get your ass to a psychiatrist, AND STAY THERE. Make a weekly appointment. And if it doesn't help after give or take an ENTIRE YEAR, then you can go 'bluh, he wasn't any help'. However.. You do not WANT that. Because the moment you say 'bluh, he wasn't any help' even AFTER A YEAR OF THERAPY.. Then that simply means you are beyond helping. Is THAT what you want? I surely hope not. |
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| Kumakaori | Sep 17 2012, 11:18 AM Post #18 |
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灰色狼
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*pinches bridge of nose*... .. . . *heavy sigh*... .. . . I cannot help a man who does not help himself. Learning from your mistakes does constitute continuing to make the same ones. My only cure for an attention whore, is to give him none. |
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