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relationships
Topic Started: Jun 23 2005, 03:48 PM (260 Views)
Shadow12one
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One thing that annoys me is when people start dating and say they love each other after a week. They dont know what love is. How can you possibly love someone after a week.

One of the worst things you can do in a relationship is confuse love with lust. For instance, there is no such thing as love at first site. You dont know the person, you cant love them. Your lusting for that person based on appearance. Confusing that with love is a dangerous mistake and can lead to some very unpleasant times.
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Shadow12one
Jun 24 2005, 10:59 AM
One thing that annoys me is when people start dating and say they love each other after a week. They dont know what love is. How can you possibly love someone after a week.

One of the worst things you can do in a relationship is confuse love with lust. For instance, there is no such thing as love at first site. You dont know the person, you cant love them. Your lusting for that person based on appearance. Confusing that with love is a dangerous mistake and can lead to some very unpleasant times.

I agree completely, though if you do know that person well enough, you can be in love in a week or less. It all depends on how you connect. For me, I believe we connected instantly, and my significant other is a great person.
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Yes agreed, though being a hopeless romantic sometimes I believe in love at first sight. *Runs away from the mob of dudes throwing rusty old cans given to them by Balinor* XD Though sometimes I don't believe in it. But yes it depends on how well you connect enough to fall in love. XD
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uh, Sam, I didn't understand a word you just said. your story was pretty jumbled
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Bah, Love in first sight doesn't exist...It's merely lust as spoken above. All it is, is the general picture of someone you really want on the outside, see you don't really know them, therefore there is naught more to be said other then 'Wow....he/she is hot' Which was the general thought most likely going through your head at the time....

Me, personally....I wanted to start out young. Saves me from wasting the rest of my life by searching when I really needed someone in certain times. I was hoping to find the one person by the time I left High School, which is two years from now... :scratch:

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