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This year I have already....
Topic Started: Jan 3 2011, 05:42 PM (121 Views)
Draiton Ieshitah
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Married off one of my characters,
Gotten one of my characters (male) pregnant
I have 'killed' off one of my characters

I have spend 50% of this year's current wages.

I have decoded a threatening phone call made to my crazy grandmother (which ended up on our answering machine)

My brother has bought a 15+ video game that I would not be able to buy, his ID was the length of his beard (boy fluff).

I have got a youth younger than me to buy me alcohol with her ID.

I have tucked my tracking bottom trousers into my odd socks, wearing a dressinggown under a coat with a bottle of rum sticking out of one pocket and gone for a walk.

I have dated my boyfriend for 100 days (he's the one counting)

I have planned three out of my four birthday parties ^-^ (really going for it this year)

I have worked Saturday 1st, Sunday 2nd and Monday 3rd. This is impressive, I have no free time yet have accomplished much.

.... I've finished this 3500 word essay! It's only taken me 7 weeks...

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On 28th December I came out to my family, on 4th January I come out to my friends. I've organised a haircut to remove the dreads, changed my name badge at work to read Dration, have gotten Uni to call me Draiton.

Up ahead this year I am (taking Opium to the vets), going to gender councelling and changing my wardrobe.
Edited by Draiton Ieshitah, Jan 3 2011, 05:46 PM.
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Cursico
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O-o
Have a break, have a kit-kat...
So my signature broke...
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Pocket
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Wait, whats gender counseling?
and Curry, I LOVE the reference!
There should be something here...........but I am a lazy lazy man.
De-loli-pop: I'm so attracted to Nyssa's writing my fingers ache on the keys.
De-loli-pop: But as a character~ we'll see.
De-loli-pop: I'm certainly very fond of her. Extremely attracted to her modesty. ^_^
Pocket: you will end up doon it with her.
De-loli-pop: Ugh, Pocket, have you no tact?
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Draiton Ieshitah
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No time for breaks, there's a sex clinic drop in on Wednesdays which I might go to.
Thursday I'm off to Lewis to buy sawdust (to fill cavities... No XD for Opium), then LARP at uni...
Friday.... I had plans o.O maybe something to do with vets... then Monday 10th Uni starts and HAND IN THE ESSAY. Weekend: working.

11th is Lucian Day. I shall wine him and dine him and dance him and make him special. 11th Jan is an important day and I will be there to cuddle and give tea and walks and we shall be merry.

(Lucian woops in the background) It's a sad day, but I shall make it happy 'cause I'm pretty great awesome. ~nods~
I think I might buy him flowers. Tuesday night is Social Group, so he might come along with me and my boyfriend if he feels like total company...
Shiiiiiiiiiiiit 11th?! Thats like... 7 whole days before my birthday o-o Whooooooooooooa.... .....

Gender councelling is talking to people who say
"are you sure"
"This is how you tell your friends/family/employers"
"These are your social options"
"These are your legal options"
"These are your surgical/hormonal options"

if you need help: call: X, Y, Z.
Talk to people who are the same/similar and have a nice life being you.
Edited by Draiton Ieshitah, Jan 4 2011, 08:29 PM.
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Pocket
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HUH?!?!
I am still very confused
Edited by Pocket, Jan 4 2011, 08:30 PM.
There should be something here...........but I am a lazy lazy man.
De-loli-pop: I'm so attracted to Nyssa's writing my fingers ache on the keys.
De-loli-pop: But as a character~ we'll see.
De-loli-pop: I'm certainly very fond of her. Extremely attracted to her modesty. ^_^
Pocket: you will end up doon it with her.
De-loli-pop: Ugh, Pocket, have you no tact?
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Draiton Ieshitah
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What about?
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Pocket
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........EVERY THING??!?!?!
what is wrong with your gender that you need counseling, and telling your family..and social.....waiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttttttttt..........Are you cutting it Offff?!?!?! for real?!? HOLY SHIT!
There should be something here...........but I am a lazy lazy man.
De-loli-pop: I'm so attracted to Nyssa's writing my fingers ache on the keys.
De-loli-pop: But as a character~ we'll see.
De-loli-pop: I'm certainly very fond of her. Extremely attracted to her modesty. ^_^
Pocket: you will end up doon it with her.
De-loli-pop: Ugh, Pocket, have you no tact?
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Draiton Ieshitah
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~rubs back of head~
Well I need help with employment atm, I need to tell work what I am for references and stuff. I'm considering hormones cause there's NO drawbacks (in my eyes), erh...
Surgery is fucking dangerous, like... the chances it will wrong is skin crawling. So I'm going for a social change now.

Erh... I'm me. Calm down Pocket. You know who I really am.
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O-o
You think you'd be better more womanly?
... Gender disphoria mayhap? (Not sure how to spell that!) Hey, I have it :O Want to switch bodies!? It's a win win situation O-o"
So my signature broke...
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Draiton Ieshitah
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~shakes head and chuckles~
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*Mutters foully* >->
So my signature broke...
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Oh, wow.

I suggest a book for you?

"Luna." By... shit, I forget. Ummmm Julie Peters or Pewter or something like that. My friend Chad/Rachel is going through something similar and underwent the proceedings to get hormones and hisher name legally changed [to Rachel]. In Ontario there is a rule of thumb for surgeries of that nature. Rachel has started cross-dressing last Spring. One more year and he "qualifies" for the surgery. Most doctors won't perform unless you commit to the change for at least two years, meaning daily life, 365 days, 52 weeks of living life in the opposite gender. Most men won't mind dressing as their ideal (dress for what you want, not for what you have) but it gets frustrating. I hope it's easier for you to get what you want to be for you.


I wish you all the luck! Remember we will love you no matter what, hun. Will you still identify with the name Draiton if you continue?

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Good luck on your journey. :)

How did family and friends take the news?
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well since Dee is still rather sleepy and curled up on the sofa, I Lucian Yale will have to give my POV of what occured.

Lucian POV
well from what I can gather from yesterdays' party, Dee came out and told us the truth. I already knew what he was inside but he was just confirming this. I myself am behind him a hundred and ten perfect. This does not change how I perceive Dee as a person, he is still my best friend and this will never change. Dee is well Dee and I love him to pieces. He has been my rock during worst two weeks of my life, now when he needs me I will be there no matter what.
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From what I remember it was the best party I've ever had. It was very hard to get all of my friends to appear in the house at the same time. We were going off to a gay bar in the evening but since one of my oldest friends has a 2 year old it's not feasable to drag everyone across town. Erhm.
So everyone appeared at eventual times, I picked my uni friend up from the station... We bought plenty of beer home and didn't drink until little Leon had gone home (and stopped dribbling on things). The rest of us got drunk, I tried to cook pasta but gave up and let my brother do it for me. ... then... we sat around the table and... Lucian and my friend drank some more. We went to the living room and I had some more rum... then... it was time to walk my friends to the station... Lucian stayed home to guard the house. I sobered up, walked my friend to his house and we had long chats- he chucked me a printed document about transsexualism which I read when I got home.
I found Lucian freaking out cause I'd been gone so long... so I cuddled him and... I think we talked in here?
So...

Yeah. It was nice that my closest could all be there, that I got to say what I had to. It was easy and they were receptive, it was fine 'cause I've never hidden who I am to them (like I have with the family). It was amazing to hear,
"Yes we know this" from one of them XD mwhaha. So I feel a lot better, But I still need to make sure the family know what's going on. I've left this transsexual booklet laying in plain view in the hope it gives my father a hint. ...
Other than that. Today I am sobering up and have to clean up the mess ... :3
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